Today’s message is short and sweet. The title may sound unusual, though it is a useful process to understand and implement. We are who we are because of the people who we love and that love us. Equally, we are who we are because of the people we hate. In fact, I’m starting to think that the ones we hate may have a stronger impact on us than the ones we love. So thank those individuals that have betrayed you, broken your heart, treated you unfairly each of them has given you the opportunity to learn and grow. They taught you many things. The majority of people have issues with their parents. Parents place boundaries in our path so we may push against them, making us stronger in the process. If life is handed to us on a platter, there is no struggle and no learning as a result when the time arises, and we do have an issue we will have no experience and knowledge as to how to handle it. Successful people fall lots; successful people just keep getting up. If you are lucky, the fall doesn’t kill you. If it does, well that is life.